Have you ever thought about getting a professional massage but were too intimidated? Maybe you are worried that you'll be asked to take off all of your clothing or that the therapist will be critiquing your body. If nerves or fear of the unknown have kept you from enjoying the many benefits of massage, fear no more. Here's the skinny on what you can expect:
What to Expect Prior to the Massage
If you are coming in for a massage for the first time, try to arrive about 15 minutes early. This will give you time to get comfortable and also allows you time to discuss with the therapist your medical history and any issues you may be having that led you to seek massage therapy. He or she will likely have you fill out a questionnaire that includes information that will help her/him give you the best possible massage. There are some instances where massage therapy is contraindicated such as following a stroke, if there is evidence of a blood clot or when certain skin disorders are present or certain common illnesses. As well, special training is necessary when providing massage therapy services to cancer patients or pregnant women.
If you are brand new to massage, the therapist will likely take a few minutes to describe what will be occurring and give you instructions for undressing and in what position you should lie on the massage table.
Arguably the most common question that new clients have is if they need to completely disrobe during a massage. What I generally told my clients is that in order for me to give them a complete therapeutic massage, it is best to remove all clothing except for panties/briefs or boxers. You will be covered with a sheet at all times during your massage, except the body part on which the therapist is working. The therapist will be using oil or a gel or cream-based lubricant when providing the massage. These products can leave stains on clothing. You will be given privacy during this time, much the same way you would be if you were having a complete physical at your physician's office.
Once you have disrobed, you will lie on the massage table and cover yourself with a sheet. (The therapist should give you direction on this before he or she leaves the room to allow you to remove your clothing.) Most therapists ask clients to lie face up to begin, but I have received massages where I was lying face down initially. It is a matter of personal preference.
Because massage increases circulation, your kidneys will be working overtime while you are on the table. After a therapeutic massage, you will likely need to head straight to the bathroom. As well, because of the increased circulation, stored toxins in the body will be released. It is a good idea to sip water throughout the day to assist in the removal of those toxins. A word of caution to those who are new to massage: If you have never had a massage AND you have not been recently following an exercise routine, the release of toxins in the body can cause some people to feel flu-like symptoms a day or two after the massage.
If you are brand new to massage, the therapist will likely take a few minutes to describe what will be occurring and give you instructions for undressing and in what position you should lie on the massage table.
Arguably the most common question that new clients have is if they need to completely disrobe during a massage. What I generally told my clients is that in order for me to give them a complete therapeutic massage, it is best to remove all clothing except for panties/briefs or boxers. You will be covered with a sheet at all times during your massage, except the body part on which the therapist is working. The therapist will be using oil or a gel or cream-based lubricant when providing the massage. These products can leave stains on clothing. You will be given privacy during this time, much the same way you would be if you were having a complete physical at your physician's office.
Once you have disrobed, you will lie on the massage table and cover yourself with a sheet. (The therapist should give you direction on this before he or she leaves the room to allow you to remove your clothing.) Most therapists ask clients to lie face up to begin, but I have received massages where I was lying face down initially. It is a matter of personal preference.
What to Expect During the Massage
When your massage is complete, the therapist will step out of the room to allow you to get up and get changed. Avoid hopping right off the table. Instead, sit for a minute or two on the edge of the table to be sure that you aren't woozy. Massage relaxes the body and clients have been known to feel dizzy if they get off the table too quickly. If you are feeling a little sleepy, that is normal.Generally, the lights in the room will be dimmed and soft music will be playing to provide a relaxing environment. If you have a particular CD that you'd like played, bring it along, most therapists will be willing to accommodate your request. Before the massage begins, instruct the therapist regarding the amount of pressure that you would like to see her or him use. Keep in mind that everyone's perception of pressure is different, what may seem relaxing to me might feel painful to you. Don't be afraid to speak up if you want the therapist to change the amount of pressure. You won't hurt her or his feelings.
When I practiced massage, I started by massaging the scalp, followed by the neck, arms and the front of the legs. When I finished the front of the legs, I would have the client turn over on their stomach and I would finish by massaging the back of the legs, the back and the shoulders. For sanitary purposes, I finished my massage with a foot massage. This is a common pattern for therapists, but each MT will have their own style.
During the massage you will most likely keep your eyes closed and talking will be minimal. Most clients don't speak at all. A good therapist will check in with you a couple of times throughout the massage to see if you are doing okay or if you'd like the pressure adjusted. If you fall asleep during the massage, don't be embarrassed. That is actually a compliment to the therapist. If this happens, the therapist can gently wake you up when the massage is through.
A good Swedish massage, the most common type of massage practiced, will include at a minimum, long stroking movements, kneading, firm gliding movements in the direction of the heart, gentle manipulation of the joints and some percussive type actions (such as tapping on the soles of the feet with a loosely closed fist.) The goal of all of these actions is to increase circulation in the body. Some of the practices are meant to stimulate the area, while others are meant to sedate.
When I practiced massage, I started by massaging the scalp, followed by the neck, arms and the front of the legs. When I finished the front of the legs, I would have the client turn over on their stomach and I would finish by massaging the back of the legs, the back and the shoulders. For sanitary purposes, I finished my massage with a foot massage. This is a common pattern for therapists, but each MT will have their own style.
During the massage you will most likely keep your eyes closed and talking will be minimal. Most clients don't speak at all. A good therapist will check in with you a couple of times throughout the massage to see if you are doing okay or if you'd like the pressure adjusted. If you fall asleep during the massage, don't be embarrassed. That is actually a compliment to the therapist. If this happens, the therapist can gently wake you up when the massage is through.
A good Swedish massage, the most common type of massage practiced, will include at a minimum, long stroking movements, kneading, firm gliding movements in the direction of the heart, gentle manipulation of the joints and some percussive type actions (such as tapping on the soles of the feet with a loosely closed fist.) The goal of all of these actions is to increase circulation in the body. Some of the practices are meant to stimulate the area, while others are meant to sedate.
What You can Expect After the Massage
Because massage increases circulation, your kidneys will be working overtime while you are on the table. After a therapeutic massage, you will likely need to head straight to the bathroom. As well, because of the increased circulation, stored toxins in the body will be released. It is a good idea to sip water throughout the day to assist in the removal of those toxins. A word of caution to those who are new to massage: If you have never had a massage AND you have not been recently following an exercise routine, the release of toxins in the body can cause some people to feel flu-like symptoms a day or two after the massage.
Final Notes
Just like you might have to try out several hairstylists before finding a good fit, it may be necessary to try several therapists before you find on whose style of massage and personality appeals to you. I have had dozens of massages with various therapists and have found only a handful whose massage is what is ideal for me personally. That is not to say that the massages I received were not excellent, they simply didn't meet all of my personal needs.
There is a difference between a licensed or certified massage therapist and a "masseuse". A massage therapist is required to undergo a specified number of hours of study, practical training and must pass a licensing or certification examination. Each state in the U.S. has their own requirements, many requiring candidates to be tested through the state's medical board. Massage therapists are required to learn the anatomy and physiology of the entire human body as well as the correct way to administer the massage techniques that they employ. In addition, therapists are required to complete continuing education to keep their license or certification complete.
Before scheduling a massage, check that you are seeing a licensed or certified MT. There are individuals who practice massage or say they are a masseuse who are both untrained and uneducated. In many states it is perfectly legal to say you practice massage as long as you don't refer to yourself as a licensed or certified practitioner. However, harm can be done if an individual does not understand the physiology of the human body or does not have correct information regarding instances when massage is contraindicated.
If you have any questions regarding massage, please leave them in the comments section and I would be happy to answer. If you would like a personal response, please leave your e-mail address as well.
*I became licensed to practice massage therapy through the State of Ohio Medical Board in 2004.
Before scheduling a massage, check that you are seeing a licensed or certified MT. There are individuals who practice massage or say they are a masseuse who are both untrained and uneducated. In many states it is perfectly legal to say you practice massage as long as you don't refer to yourself as a licensed or certified practitioner. However, harm can be done if an individual does not understand the physiology of the human body or does not have correct information regarding instances when massage is contraindicated.
If you have any questions regarding massage, please leave them in the comments section and I would be happy to answer. If you would like a personal response, please leave your e-mail address as well.
*I became licensed to practice massage therapy through the State of Ohio Medical Board in 2004.

This is a great post b/c I know a lot of people who are nervous about getting a massage. I was, before I had my first one, but after that, I was in love! A hot stone massage is heaven on earth! Every massage therapist I've dealt with has been very professional and I was completely comfortable (once you get past the "i'm naked with a stranger", and realize you stay completely covered), but I've always been to reputable places. I wouldn't go pick someone off Craig's List...nothing against Craig's list, but you know what I'm sayin'!
ReplyDeleteGreat post & I so need a massage!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is loaded with great information! I wouldn't be surprised if it becomes one of your most-read posts.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharin' Karen!
Never had a pro massage. But, I recall when I lived in Japan for a year the barbers would give you a neck and upper shoulder rub down when done cutting your hair. That was the best part, by far. I got my hair cut every other week.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this post! I have only gotten massages on vacation or the rare time someone gave me a gift certificate. And I am always a little uncomfortable with the whole thing.
ReplyDeleteI'd love to hear about tipping etiquette please.
This is a great post that is very accurate to what having a massage is like. I love my massage therapist and I think of her as part of my health "team". When I go back to school in the fall I have booked a massage every 2nd week in order to help manage my stress levels and anxiety.
ReplyDeleteGreat article. It's a good reminder that I need to go for one. They're covered under my husband's medical benefits, but I haven't been since I was last pregnant.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post. I feel much more educated now. It has been ages since I have gotten one. If I had the extra cash I would go cause they always make me feel great.
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post with just the right information I need. Thanks so much!
ReplyDeleteMany people are afraid to have a professional massage which is too bad as they would find the experience rewarding.
ReplyDeleteWe have a fabulous school of massage here. I've know several people who have gone through the program, and they always leave a better, more evolved human being than when they started.
Great post. I LOVE getting massages. I did have one massage fully clothed, sitting up, where the guy talked to me the entire time. I don't know what kind of massage it was, but I hated it! I was way more uncomfortable looking eye to eye with the MT and talking than stripping down and laying face first on a table....I want to close my eyes and relax! I don't want to talk about my family or yours! I guess it felt more like physical therapy than a relaxing massage.
ReplyDeleteKaren - this is a great post! I plan to forward it to a few friends who have yet to experience a professional massage. I wish I had had this to read before my first massage experience just last year! I'm very lucky, I had great 'chemistry' with my first massage therapist and always look forward to the experience.
ReplyDeleteWow! Your timing is so great! I have recently been considering getting a massage for the first time ever. I have all the apprehnsions you addressed. Thanks. And when you were describing how you gave a massage, it sounded so wonderful. Now, I really want one. Okay, one thing. My biggest concern, besides the whole take off your clothes thing, is that I will be so relaxed that I will let out some weird moan or somehing. Are moaning (in a totally non-sexual way) sounds normal? :)
ReplyDeleteKaren, My husband recently gave me a certificate for a one hour Swedish stone massage. Is one hour necessary? What is the deal with the stones? How does a stone help your muscles or is that all a gimmick? I've had massages before and I love them. They help me relax and destress, but have never noticed any effects other than that -- perhaps because they have been 30 min. massages? Your input will be appreciated!
ReplyDeleteOne day, when I'm done paying off debt, I am getting a professional massage. I never had one and sometimes after a major workout, I REALLY feel like I need one!
ReplyDeleteI think massages are one of the greatest things in the world! But like you say, not all therapists are alike. I have experimented with ones I like better than others, b/c we all have our personal preferences. I may like ones that my friends don't and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I'm glad to hear you say that therapists don't mind if you ask them to adjust the pressure. I'm a sucker for punishment and really like deep massages, but sometimes I feel bad when I ask them to go deeper and deeper!
oh how i love massages
ReplyDeletegot the best one last night
I must admit that I'm afraid of massages... :( But thanks to this, I think I shall go for one!!!
ReplyDeleteI love massages. I am heading to one in an hour :)
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