Friday, June 25, 2010

Inspiration Comes in Many Forms

Gyms can be intimidating places for those who are new to this type of setting. I recall a relative of mine, 100 lbs overweight at the time, who refused to join a gym out of fear. She felt as though she would be judged and laughed at for attempting to work out at her size. Chances are, if she had joined, she might have been pleasantly surprised at the support she found from the staff. Perhaps she would have realized that people weren't judging her at all. In fact, maybe she might have inspired a few of her fellow gym-goers. The reason I mention this is because I am constantly inspired by other members of my gym, and not just those who have developed the most toned, lean bodies. Inspiration can come in all sizes and shapes.

Shortly after the new year began I headed to the gym on a particularly gloomy morning. The sun wasn't shining, the ground was covered with that slushy mess that forms when the weather warms up just a bit after a large amount of snow has accumulated. I would have preferred to sit on my couch with an enormous mug of steaming coffee and watch all dozen or so hours of The Today Show. However, with the holidays just passed I knew I had to get back into the routine that was so easily tweaked in the wrong direction during the month of December. As I headed to the second floor of the gym where the cardio equipment resides, I passed a young man who appeared to be about 18 years old. He was quite heavy already at his tender age, probably 150 or more pounds over his ideal weight. He was taking the stairs one at a time and it was a challenge for him. I could see that he was embarrassed that he was struggling to do what most everyone else in the building wouldn't give a second thought. But he was there just the same.

I headed to my favorite piece of cardio equipment and got started with the day's workout. As I often do about 15 minutes in, I started absentmindedly peering over the rail to the free weight area below. I noticed a woman about my age working with one of the personal trainers on staff. I imagined that she had made a new year's resolution to lose those extra pounds, perhaps something she'd done in years past, and this was the year she was going to succeed. Her body language clearly showed that she felt out of her element. She appeared to approach each exercise tentatively. But she was there just the same.

As I headed back to the locker room after my workout I thought about that young man on the stairs and the woman working with the trainer. Both of them had stepped out of their comfort zone to seek a better, healthier life. Both of these individuals inspired me that day.

As I made my way to the exit I received one final overwhelming chunk of inspiration. An elderly couple was entering the gym, each appeared to be about 80 years old. The gentleman, frail, with stooped shoulders, assisted his wife who was moving at a snail's pace with the help of a walker. He waited patiently for her to make her entrance as I was exiting the building. Surely they would rather have stayed home on such a dreary morning, warm in the comfort of their own home, but instead they saw the need for and value in getting some activity that day. They were there just the same and they inspired me.

17 comments:

  1. Looking at the out of shape amongst us in a postive light vs. negative, hhmmm, and find inspiration in them? That's crazy talk. No? Crazy is passing up inspiration where it can be found and I too have found inspiration from those who have made the choice to climb the enormous hill before them and get healthy. When we see that 50-100 pound over weight person walking or jogging alongthe roadside we ought not wonder why did they let themselves get that way, rather, wonder are you as strong as they are? As committed??

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  2. Okay, so I own a gym and work in my gym. Still, when I go to other gyms to workout or for speaking gigs, I get nervous and intimidated. Why? Because of the expectations I have of who might be on the other side of the door. It's all in my head, but it is very real.

    I think that is one of the larger reasons why people fear the gym -- that we thrust huge expectations on what or who's on the other side of the door.

    And when I talk with people, heavy people in particular, or those new to the gym, they always tell me how nice and friendly people in the gym are to them.

    Most gyms I know are safe havens and have nurturing employees.

    As far as inspiration goes, the people who inspire me most when I am in other gyms are the people working the hardest -- who are usually the heavier to obese people who's lives are truly on the line.

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  3. I have read in blogs about people being afraid or embarrassed to go to gyms because they are overweight and worry what others will think. I can honestly say that when I see a clearly overweight person at the gym, I am also inspired. I admire their courage and strength for making the effort. I feel the same when I see seniors citizens at my gym, and there are many. Doing what they can. Inspiring me.

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  4. I am sometimes intimidated when I go to the gym. But I am also usually working out with my trainer and have far more to worry about than what other people think of me exercising.

    It is harder when I go out running. I live in a big city and generally run in the park, where there are usually dozens of other runners. 98% of them are faster and more fit than I am. And sometimes I wonder if I should even be out using the same park.

    But on my long runs especially, it is hard to go the whole run without someone talking to me. A couple guys will pass me and say "Keep it up!", or someone running towards me will say "Great job!" All this in addition to the smiles, waves, and occasional "good morning"s that are shared with other runners on the trail.

    Sometimes it is hard to remember that runners, and probably most people in gyms too, are generally pretty happy people. We have lots of endorphins! If I am any sort of inspiration to anyone... hey, I'll take it. =)

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  5. I share your inspirations too. I probably get more inspired when I see the near elderly at the gym. While I'm only 41, I knew I was headed for a really bad set of golden years. I think I'm going to be doing a lot better now and I am so satisfied to see folks fighting like hell to get and stay healthy until their dying day.

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  6. I love your inspiration stories.

    I don't go to a gym to work out but I do see overweight people out on the nature trail I walk on and I always think "good for them" for getting out there and moving.

    We forget sometimes that when we see someone who looks fit and healthy that they might have a story like ours. Perhaps they have had a transformation like me!

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  7. If we all waited until we were in shape to join a gym, we'd never join. I actually laugh at people who show up in tight clothes, hair and makeup all done up, trying to look sexy as they walk on treadmills or lift weights. That's not the point of a gym at all.

    When I belonged to the Y, there were tons of elderly people who walked on the track where I walked. I guess Medicare pays for membership??? I decided that would be me when I'm old and retired. I long for the day when I'll get to get up and go to the gym every morning instead of working.

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  8. I get inspired by people at my fitness center all the time! It's a good thing to share as we are all in this together.

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  9. Great post! I am inspired by people there all of the time. Maybe we should start sharing that with them (or at least smiling) so they know they are inspiring, and not just sticking out. Good stuff Karen!

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  10. These are all very inspiring stories. I always feel embarassed when I am running in public, but have started to realize that maybe I am inspiring someone else- and that motivates me to get out there!

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  11. Loved this! So many inspiring people out there! I see old, young, heavy & very fit.. they all have something inspiring to me & the fact that they are there & trying!

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  12. Karen, this may sound silly, but that post brought tears to my eyes. I'm not ashamed to admit it. When people are brave enough to step out of their comfort zone, no matter what the situation, that IS inspiring. I keep telling my friends at work that when I get old and have to use a walker, they'd better get out of my way; I'll be running with it, LOL. I'll never give up on fitness.

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  13. Karen, you have made a good point. Sometimes those of us that are still in weight loss mode don't realize how we can inspire those that are maintaining just by giving our all and trying. And the gym really is a safe haven for obese/overweight people. It's the one place you will not be judged. Seriously.

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  14. Thanks for your comment on my blog! I look forward to catching up on yours. As for this blog entry I know what you mean. I have a friend who I ask to go to the gym with me and she says she needs to lose weight first! I try to explain to her that everyone at the gym is at different stages in their fitness journey. I am inspired by the people who come out and are working towards a healthy lifestyle. It def. makes me kick my workout into high gear.

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  15. Karen, I loved this post! I have often found myself thinking the same thing when I see others making the effort to include fitness in their life. I wish everyone had a tendency to think positively and in a non-judgmental way like you do.

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  16. I've heard a lot of people saying they're uncomfortable going to the gym or even going for a walk because of their weight. All I can think is, "Good for you!" Everyone has to start somewhere.

    I think the most interesting one I ever heard, though, was an overweight woman who usually did her walks in the morning before work. She said she was sitting on her deck after work one evening and there were people running and walking by for their daily exercise. She thought they were judging her because she WASN'T exercising!

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