"If I had a chef to cook low-fat meals for me and a personal trainer who came to my home every morning, I could lose weight too!"
Those are the words of a close friend who was speaking about Oprah Winfrey's dramatic weight loss in the 1990's. At the time, Oprah Winfrey hired chef, Rosie Daley, whose delicious low-fat creations she had sampled while visiting the resort where Ms. Daley was employed. She also had the luxury of having personal trainer, Bob Greene, coming to her home to put her through the rigors of a daily morning workout. My friend was convinced that if she had the money for a chef and a trainer that she would have no trouble taking off the extra pounds. I'm not so sure it's that simple.
Sure it would be fabulous to delegate the responsibility of planning healthy meals with a good balance of nutrients, calories and fat to someone else. Chefs are familiar with combining flavors and seasonings to create meals that are big on flavor. Who doesn't get bored with the same baked chicken breast and broccoli? Prep work and cooking is time consuming. Having the financial resources of a celebrity of Ms. Winfrey's caliber would allow this luxury for a lifetime. But having well planned, tasty meals that are prepared by someone else doesn't prevent the urge to snack between meals or late at night. That is an issue that even the rich and famous must address.
As far as exercise is concerned, you can't pay someone to exercise for you, even Oprah has to sweat it out to get results. She still has to get out of her warm bed in the morning and put on her workout gear. She still has to perform the bicep curls, crunches and squats like us mere mortals. She can't get an assistant to hop on the treadmill for a three mile jog. Those are assignments that she has to tackle herself. Would you get better results if you could work out in your home with a trainer every day? That depends on you. The trainer can take the work out of planning the routine for the day, but if you want those results, you have to give it your all. You have to be willing to push yourself. You can't give up when it starts getting hard.
No one said that it was easy to lose weight or get/stay fit. It takes work. It takes dedication. It takes time and planning. In Oprah's case, it took money. While we might like to use finances as an excuse for our lack of success, keep in mind that even with all of the resources at her fingertips, the powerful Ms. Winfrey gained back a great deal of weight. Money can't buy weight loss success. It can't buy you a fit body. It can help make life easier, but ultimately, it takes effort and a willingness to do whatever it takes.
Great post. And given all Oprah's resources, she still struggles with food and weight, like us mere mortals, everyday. So all the resources at her disposal didn't make her relapse proof - or ensure that she would get "cured"!
ReplyDeleteAll that said, I would love to have a chef and a trainer!! It would make some things easier, but it wouldn't take away my eating disorder.
I completely agree. And Oprah still struggles with her weight, even with all her resources.
ReplyDeleteYeah, ditto me in. Money can help you in many ways with weight loss and getting healthy but if you are not in the right mind mentally, it is wasted money most likley. Not sure money can help much with mindset, perhaps a therapists time may help, but even when you leave that session you have to rely on your own inner self to get it done.
ReplyDeleteKaren, I feel that you know what I go through every time you post your blog posts! I woke up feeling a bit depressed about my constant work at losing weight and not seeing the results. I keep thinking if I had the money I could do Jenny Craig or Nutrisystem or other programs out there.
ReplyDeleteIt is true that it all depends on our own strenght. However, I feel that I am my worst enemy because it is easier to put myself down than encourage myself to be successful.
So thank you for the post!
On a different note: I have a question for Wednesday Trainer's corner. What do your trainers think about working out at home with work out dvds? Can they get the work done?
The other thing I always remember is that for as "together" as Oprah seems to be, something is not quite in synche if she really wants to be thin and can't use all of her resources to get there. It's not as simple as having all the "stuff" to be successful, you have to have your head in the right place. That's the X-factor that money can't buy.
ReplyDeleteI shudder to think of the money I spent on personal trainers that helped me to get to about 190 pounds of healthier body weight than I am today, but gained much of it back historically.
ReplyDeleteSo...I can say that you can buy weight loss...you can't buy the mental discipline to keep it off.
I have said the exact same thing as your friend before! I do think having money would make it somewhat easier (or at least the meals would taste better), but you are so right. The work still has to be done! I am weary to spend much money in this journey at all and have learned that I can do this for myself, with all the resources I have available!
ReplyDeleteLike you say, there are no shortcuts to working out and eating right. While I do think there's real value in working with a personal trainer, the "pupil" still has to work hard to see the payoff. I'm also a big believer in learning how to cook as a means of eating healthier foods and learning discipline for those mid-afternoon and late night snacks. If you know what you're cooking, you know what you're eating.
ReplyDeleteI used to think that I could be thin and fit if I had money but then changed my mind because of Oprah! I still wish I had money for a cook and trainer and an amazing home gym. But such is life.
ReplyDeleteI would like to testify here that money canNOT buy weight loss. I'm an ordinary woman, a work at home business woman who makes a very good living. I have a personal trainer, a personal nutritionist..a nanny/housekeeper that grocery shops and cooks me dinner 4 nights per week..cuts and prepares all our fruits and veggies for the week and so on and so on. My scale hasn't budged.
ReplyDeleteNo, I have to find it within myself. I go to workout. I do. My old personal trainer came to my darn HOUSE!
But no one is holding my hand when I'm alone in the car, at night after dinner, or after everyone has gone to bed.
Sure, I have all the support one could ask for or money could pay for, but from all the blogs I read out there and any real lasting success story I've seen, those people didn't have all those things. They reached down and found it within themselves and did what they had to do. Hopefully I'll find that real darn soon.
I agree! I will say that money CAN buy you weight loss but it CANNOT buy you maintenance. In addition to Oprah...look at Kirstie Alley. All she was doing was eating the meals from JC and also worked out with a trainer, at home, with an entire in-home circuit gym.
ReplyDeleteI will say that I have made weight loss a priority and invested in a personal trainer and it was the best money I ever spent. I don't think all trainers are created equal but I don't think I can put a price on the knowledge he's given me that I'm sure will continue beyond the sessions I've purchased.
With Oprah still struggling with it I'm surprised you friend thought money was the answer. Even those that use money for surgery to lose it can still put it back on if they continue on their old ways.
ReplyDeleteI agree with this post in many ways, but I also disagree. Here is why. The Biggest LOSER (the dumbest show on Earth) has people losing weight no matter what. Each contestant on that show loses weight. Why? They have RDs, personal trainers, etc. telling them what to do and what not to do. They each have someone pushing them and forcing them to workout and eat healthy. This is exactly what Oprah paid for when she lost weight, and poof, it worked! Of course now she has a "thyroid problem" and I'm sure she paid the big bucks to get that fixed too, because she has lost the weight that the thyroid problem caused.
ReplyDeleteI do agree that your money can't take you that far, however. I mean even if you were a triple billionaire you wouldn't necessarily have someone coming with you to all of your dinner parties, restaurants, and vacations. That's when the true willpower and nutrition knowledge really comes into play.
Great post.
ReplyDeleteUltimately I think the key is completely internal.
If you've made that internal connection, it can make it easier to have money. A personal chef and trainer would be great, right?
If you haven't made that connection though, nobody can do it for you. Doesn't matter how much money you pay.
I've often thought the same thing.... "If I had money I could easily lose weight..." "If I had a personal chef, I could eat better..."
ReplyDeleteThen I used to think, "If I lost weight I would be so much happier..."
You know I think the "ifs" have to be taken out of the equation completely. You cannot live your life on "ifs". You need to create sustainable daily action.
There have been several examples where people were paid for losing weight, mostly in England, and it worked better than not paying them.
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